Focusing on the wrong side of the problem

Why do people, who hear of my situation, focus on me as an allegedly failed agent?

I don't necessarily have control over this; women exert the gatekeeping function. If anything, women have failed me.

Besides, the evidence in the genome suggests that a minority of men over the long run father the majority of descendants. That implies uncounted generations of sexually rejected men who came and went without passing along their genes. I had the odds working against me from birth, especially considering that my father married relatively late (age 31) because he had trouble attracting women as an undesirable beta male himself, judging from my mother's appearance. He might not have even had a girlfriend before he met my mother, a fat woman from a hillbilly family about a dozen years younger than him who certainly never had a boyfriend until then. He never told me much about his adult life before he married mom, and he certainly didn't advise me about finding girlfriends during my maturation. That probably reflects the void in his own experience during his youth.

By contrast, women have a much easier time of it, even unattractive ones like mom. Just lie back and think of England. . .